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The Gentleman's Agreement: A Letter to Kathy Lacy

November 11th, 1947

Dear Ms. Kathy Lacy,

Overhearing your conversation with that Jewish military man in the bar earlier today, I am sure that you still have doubts over your identity -- not as a wealthy, white woman, but as an anti-semite. I am just as sure that you are now offended as I am sure that you know, deep down in yourself, that I am correct in making this statement. But, Ms. Lacy, I would greatly appreciate if you would finish reading this letter even after all of the things I am about to say. Ms. Lacy you are an anti-semite, a racist, and any other logical classification associated with prejudice. But you are not alone. As I believe your former fiance has already clarified for you, prejudice is not manifested only in your outspoken disdain or mistreatment of another individual for an aspect of their identity that they cannot control. The recently infamous images of Hitler-hailing Nazis and KKK leaders that I am sure you are familiar with, are only a fraction of the prejudice that exists in the world today. A much larger fraction is the unspoken, almost nuanced, and internalized instances where you, and most others in the world, look differently upon someone because of their race, religion, or any other defining factor. Ms. Lacy, you are an anti-semite when you say that you are happy to not be Jewish -- or to not be black. Because in doing so, you are implying that there is an inherent negativity in Jewish and “colored” identity. But I do not blame you for thinking this, for it is only human nature to look upon those who are treated worse than you and be thankful that you do not possess the distinguishing factor of which those individuals are treated worse for. In this sense, all Americans, all humans, are anti-semitic and racist. But it is how we realize and address this, that determines our character -- and I hope you recognize this now.

Best,
An Observer